c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 22 Sep 2026 16:03 Rulejected check post at origin
My own psychological trick is to commt to get the “no.” I decide I’m going to rule out yes. So if they tell me no, then I’ve succeeded.
I still feel dejected, but it works in getting me to ask.
That’s a lot of gymnastics