Is this really appropriate for this post? If a trans woman makes a post about having severe dysphoria about say, facial hair, and someone comes in and says, âwell Iâm a trans woman and I LOVE facial hair!â That kind of thing just seems really problematic to me.
Like what you like. No wrong way to be trans. But thereâs a time and a place. When someone clearly feels a discomfort about a part of their body, it feels tone deaf to come into their post and say, âWell I DON"T have that problem, I love (feature X!)â Perfectly valid of you to like what you like, but this doesnât feel like the right place to do it. Maybe make a gock celebration post if thatâs what you want to do. But in a post like this? It feels like rubbing their pain in their face.
People are allowed to have or not have dysphoria about body parts. We shouldnât shame trans women who want to keep their factory equipment. But we also shouldnât be gockposting in places it really isnât appropriate. Someone should be able to make a post expressing discomfort or dysphoria about their body without having multiple people jump in saying, âwell I DONâT have that issue.â Thatâs fine if you donât have dysphoria about an issue. No need to come in and point out how youâre not bothered by other peopleâs troubles.
But what about all the gock lovers youâre missing out on?
I like girl bulge on others; I just donât want it on me
Ah, the joys of being a bottom.
The girls who like to top can literally have their pick of hundreds of bottoms đ¤Ł
Is this really appropriate for this post? If a trans woman makes a post about having severe dysphoria about say, facial hair, and someone comes in and says, âwell Iâm a trans woman and I LOVE facial hair!â That kind of thing just seems really problematic to me.
Like what you like. No wrong way to be trans. But thereâs a time and a place. When someone clearly feels a discomfort about a part of their body, it feels tone deaf to come into their post and say, âWell I DON"T have that problem, I love (feature X!)â Perfectly valid of you to like what you like, but this doesnât feel like the right place to do it. Maybe make a gock celebration post if thatâs what you want to do. But in a post like this? It feels like rubbing their pain in their face.
People are allowed to have or not have dysphoria about body parts. We shouldnât shame trans women who want to keep their factory equipment. But we also shouldnât be gockposting in places it really isnât appropriate. Someone should be able to make a post expressing discomfort or dysphoria about their body without having multiple people jump in saying, âwell I DONâT have that issue.â Thatâs fine if you donât have dysphoria about an issue. No need to come in and point out how youâre not bothered by other peopleâs troubles.