@Shanoa@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Shanoa (she/her)
member since 3 Sep 2025 18:49
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- on actual picture of me in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 Sep 2026
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on I love myself some loneliness (vent post) in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 27 Aug 2026
Ugh yeah I can relate when it comes to social skills and I’m pretty quiet myself, though in my case I think I’ll just have to keep looking for opportunities I can get more experience and practice in. I’ve been struggling to put myself out as much as I’d like there, and super unpleasant interactions with strangers who’ve clocked me push me further into staying inside more (and I’m living in one of the most accepting cities out there for trans people). 😔
I’d describe my family as mostly being cruelly indifferent to me, though occasionally they can come across as antagonistic too. I personally haven’t dealt much with them pushing gender expectations on me (a good chunk of why though is because I avoid family gatherings and I have only even come out to a select few of them in the 45 months I’ve been on HRT), but that sounds awfully draining to deal with, as I feel coming out is supposed to help break those constraints and alleviate the pain that comes with them in the first place. I hope you can get to a safer place soon. 🫂
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on I love myself some loneliness (vent post) in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 26 Aug 2026
I’m in a similar boat struggling to make any offline friends as a shut-in slowly trying to turn my life back around, and it really feels hopeless for me despite my efforts at meeting with people and communities. I have no support network I can rely on or even family that accepts me, so I’m truly on my own when it comes to that and navigating my transition.
Not sure if we share any interests, but my DMs are always open if you’d like someone to talk to. 🤍
literally me 😭