@Stupidmanager@lemmy.world
member since 30 Jun 2023 22:57
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- on Dating Apps Are Dying in c/technology@lemmy.world · 14 Sep 2026
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on Dating Apps Are Dying in c/technology@lemmy.world · 13 Sep 2026
I really never found bots to be a problem. Maybe 1 of 20 matches and one gal I actually met started the chat with me saying she knows her profile looks like a bot but she is real and then asks me to meet her later this week for coffee. 😂 im not hot by any means, but she was… sadly it didn’t work out but damn good 45 days.
Mine has always been truth of person. No one seems to be who they really are on their profile.
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on Dating Apps Are Dying in c/technology@lemmy.world · 13 Sep 2026
I’ve paid for a few to see if it helps - It does and I feel like it was worth it up until 2 years ago when they changed how matching works. But you know what doesn’t work, people telling the truth on their profile. So great, I had better matches or in my case on bumble, better choice for matches based on who liked me. But damn if Jeni from the town next door loved “hiking” when really she just loved watching tv and one day wanted to “be more active”. She also told me she wanted to move to Spain one day… guess who also wanted to move to Europe ( Spain, wherever) - me! But I got the job and she’s pulling the “well not yet!!!” and in the end just wanted to visit and knew I have money to do this. P.s. I live in Spain now.
Each profile is a crafted (and truth bending) aspect of your life for others to review and I hate how it doesn’t capture the truth of who you really are in person. I went in being honest and found women who liked the same, but yet they were never really who they were on the app. I found my best matches when I wasn’t truthful or bent the truth a tad but yet I never stayed together long.
Best girlfriend so far, met her organically on the beach because my dog went over to say hi by licking her face. She’s a bit over the top, has tattoos everywhere including a funny phrase on her ass, but she’s the most compatible woman I’ve met so far.
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on Love is love in c/lemmybewholesome@lemmy.world · 6 Sep 2026
Religion, organized religion should be considered a mental illness, prove me wrong.
Anything that teaches hate, promotes superiority, or considers anyone less because they choose to believe (or not) in something else… all for a deity that can’t seemed to be bothered to actually smite those very people religions claims to truly despise…
Being gay is ok. Love to my gay peeps.
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on A Hegseth Employee Created a Database to Track Americans Based on Their Political Affiliation in c/technology@lemmy.world · 31 Aug 2026
Vegetables don’t talk, let alone spew toxic word shit
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on A Hegseth Employee Created a Database to Track Americans Based on Their Political Affiliation in c/technology@lemmy.world · 30 Aug 2026
Yep. Most states already do this and have for a long time. It’s not freely accessible and searchable, but you only need to know the information of the person to find more info on the states page.
I’m a socialist liberal who thinks Donald Trump should be struck into a conscious but unable to communicate vegetative state. Ya fuck wits, register that.
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on LG monitors silently install software through Windows Update without consent (videocardz.com) in c/technology@lemmy.world · 29 Aug 2026
Yo! Me too, but I run macOS. and apple isn’t a twat, just yet.
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on A solar powered website that goes offline when there's no power in c/selfhosted@lemmy.world · 18 Aug 2026
Companies claiming 99.9999 uptime is an absurd goal for a SLA, and wouldn’t even survive a small internet outage like a DDoS attack or Akamai outage. I remember in the 90s selling the idea of 5 9’s - 99.999% on my resume until some manager who Interviewed me asked me to state the expected downtime. I stopped claiming that number because it’s impossible without full active redundancy in different locations and not dependent on external providers like cloudflare ever going down.
And please don’t argue maintenance windows “cover it” because that’s not how they work in the real world today.
Downtime per year:
- 99% ~3.65 days (5,256 min)
- 99.9% ~8.77 hours (526 min)
- 99.99% ~52.6 min
- 99.999% ~5.26 min
- 99.9999% ~31.5 seconds
For my home lab I’m happy my stuff is online and content I hardly lose access when there’s a power outage thanks to my ups. But if I tracked I’d be closer to 95%. Good enough but I can’t wait till I just don’t care to run anything.
Heh, I’ll ask for a pic but I expect her to dump me for it. But hey, internet points!! 😂