@WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com
WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]
member since 31 Dec 2023 07:08
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- on egg💾irl in c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 15 Sep 2026
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on egg💾irl in c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 15 Sep 2026
Na, just don’t connect them to gender and it’s no problem. Doesn’t matter what it is. Desire to “crossdress”? Probably nothing. Wish for bottom surgery? Certainly no reason to think about it being gender related . Cry yourself to sleep because you “can’t” be another gender? Why would you even consider that adjacent to being about gender.
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on egg💾irl in c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 15 Sep 2026
You can always start some of the steps that are slow acting like HRT or laser if those are things you want while still boymoding.
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on Super rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 14 Sep 2026
I don’t think he’s gonna be using turn signals any time soon.
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on Stop Doing Swap Partitions in c/linuxmemes@lemmy.world · 12 Sep 2026
I’ve had my computer crash trying to open or save a pdf once because it used up all the RAM space (16gb) and then used up the small swap (probably like 10gb?) and I guess some critical processes I guess just got told “no.” Seems wild to me that Windows would just crash before it told a pdf it couldn’t use over 20gb of memory.
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on burgerless :( in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 9 Sep 2026
What is a pogbur?
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on Big mistake rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 24 Aug 2026
Given how frequently it happens even with no male partners or it continues despite the male partner saying to talk to the wife about, I’m am gonna guess it’s pretty uncommon to be the primary factor.
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on Big mistake rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 24 Aug 2026
I can’t see downvotes anyways 🤷♀️
Honestly a lot of times people doing “well actually…” aren’t acting in good faith, so I don’t blame people for downvoting.
I just find interesting because some of my parents neighbors are like that, but my parents are lesbians, but one of them is quite eggy (not just butch) and they socially treat her as a guy, so the husbands will talk directly with one of my moms but not the other. So I find it a little fascinating how different flavors of sexism try to manage situations outside the norms that were assumed in their making (surprisingly they seem to have no problem with her being a lesbian). Otoh, they’ve had plenty of contractors coming to give bids who just clearly don’t respect either of them because they are women.
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on Big mistake rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 24 Aug 2026
Yup. Either way, not worth dealing with their BS.
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on Big mistake rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 24 Aug 2026
I know for some, its considered improper to have interactions with opposite sex members after marriage, so its entirely possible they knew who is the decision maker and still feel obligated to use the husband as a go-between.
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on This meme is the goat in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 22 Aug 2026
Oh, the goal wasn’t supposed to just be walking on the ground next to the wall. Thanks for the full image!
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on This meme is the goat in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 22 Aug 2026
Something about jojos
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on Perky Upsides in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 16 Aug 2026
No, its very serious. YMMV. Lots of us never experience such. Others have very debilitating periods. Just like cis women. No bleeding though; just all the other symptoms.
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on egg🤨irl (more in body) in c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 8 Aug 2026
In this case the older person is my mom and she has done well passing as a guy lost her life without any surgeries or hormones and acknowledging that she’s not cis.
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on egg🤨irl (more in body) in c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 8 Aug 2026
If they want to transition the opposite direction, sometimes they say affirming things while probably trying to be insulting because they’re convinced no one of their gender wants to be that way. Otoh, it makes it harder for them to understand why you’d want to transition and trying to convince someone who is 60+ and says they want to transition that they should just do it is hard…
No worries. I’m a coward as well. I started HRT 2.5 years ago and now I’m a bit worried getting laser because I suspect my facial hair does a lot of work in being able to boymode despite everything else.