@applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone
applebusch (she/her)
member since 11 Nov 2024 20:26
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- on At least 2023 wasn't so bad in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4h ago
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on BLEHH x3 rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4h ago
i think i remember seeing a presentation advocating for reintroduction that showed more people are killed during vehicle collisions with deer than would ever be killed by their predators. wolves and cougars tend to stay away from people, especially with boutiful deer to eat. if they kill a person its mostly people who are deliberately fucking with them. peoples fear of large predators is more due to paranoia and ignorance than real danger.
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on BLEHH x3 rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 10h ago
in the usa the deer population exploded with the removal of their natural predators and the expansion of industrial agriculture. these days most places theyre overpopulated, which causes issues for them, humans, and the environment. we’ve made efforts to control the deer population through hunting, but we’re not even close to hunting them enough to make a dent and theres a stark lack of political will for the dramatic expansion of deer hunting that would be required to make a difference. the leading cause of death of deer is being hit by a car, and its by a lot, and even that doesnt really make a big difference. chronic wasting disease is a prion disease which lasts a long time outside of a deers body and is very contagious, which is why its a concern, and their overpopulation makes it potentially much worse. the best thing we could do for deer is bring back their natural predators, especially wolves. most people dont want to hear that though because it means having wolves around.
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on Rockstar had a mole in the union worker Discord server "for over two and a half years", GTA 6 company reveals during legal battle in c/games@lemmy.world · 1d ago
its almost like the problem is capitalism. wait that cant be right…
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on nerds irl rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1d ago
maybe not yet :3
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on gender math [gay calculator] in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1d ago
the existence of a sexuality cross product implies the existence of negative gender, which implies the existence of negative gayness. a [1 0 0] * [-1 0 0] relationship would be gayness -1, while being straightness 0, suggesting some kind of anti-gay or opposite gay. rather than attempting to erase the existence of negative gender with an absolute on the cross product we must explore its implications. perhaps a negative gender individual can be found. gender theory must know!
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on what men want in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1d ago
idk looks like most of those connections are to supply blood to the fallopian tubes downstream. no reason they couldnt be closed off. then you only need to connect the ovarian artery and a couple veins. closing off those downstream paths is something they would need to do for people who have their uterus and fallopian tubes removed while keeping their ovaries.
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on what men want in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1d ago
this made me wonder, if a compatible trans femme and compatible trans masc want to trade gonads, would that be possible? not for the purposes of reproduction, just for hormone production. like they get my testicles and i get their ovaries and neither of us need HRT anymore.
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on how baby trains are made in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1d ago
if you look closely you can see theyre both in heat. they just find two trains in heat, push them together real slow, and let nature take its course.
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on G’óld Amefood rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3d ago
is that popcorn? it would take so long to eat with chopsticks…
my favorite is pizza and its not even close.
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on Is it bait, actual yuri, or just me reading into things? in c/yurimemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5d ago
it seems so unintentional sometimes. like the male writer sees women out in the world and likes their style and writes the character to be like that, not realizing they were a lesbian so they write them to be into men and all the lesbians are super confused why this obvious lesbian giving off all the lesbian signals is into the story’s bestest boy. its pure male fantasy and it shows how little they understand women.
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on It's a long ruledown in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6d ago
or just wear exactly the same clothes every day and wash them when they get dirty 🙃
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on Mimi is so me in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 17 Sep 2026
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on girls its official (always was) in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 16 Sep 2026
its weird back when i was on testosterone i was such a baby about pain. it was the worst and i could barely deal with it so i avoided it as much as i could. now that im on estrogen my pain tolerance is much higher and i can actually receive enough pain to feel the endorphin rush. so yeah i get it now. pain makes me feel alive too :3
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on you can make a difference in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 15 Sep 2026
im sad to say my battle wouldnt be made any easier by $40. i already have $40 and it isnt helping. having a 30 hour a week job i can afford to live on, however… 40 plus commute is too fucking much. no time or motivation for any of the shit i really want and need to do.
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on egg🙃irl in c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 14 Sep 2026
ties are dysphoria incarnate. that and button down dress shirts. both together and i want to die.
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on 2000s public education rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 13 Sep 2026
old
2009
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sad millennial noises
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on manic rn in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 12 Sep 2026
i wonder how far i can get to the right realistically hmm
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on secrecy in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 11 Sep 2026
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on escape room challenge in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 10 Sep 2026
master escape room idea: you’re in your bed and you have one hour to get out of bed, and there’s and eepy cutie in there with you who wants you to stay and cuddle more
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on im not gonna get better, am I? in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 9 Sep 2026
you can get better. i thought the same thing a few years ago when i finally started going to therapy. in the beginning it didnt feel like i was doing anything, like it wasnt working. i was so deep in masking, my maladaptive coping strategies, my numbness and fear. but slowly i started challenging myself to change, to address the ways i hurt myself to protect myself. ive learned a lot and changed a lot, and i sometimes even feel some hope that i can be a real person, and sometimes i even feel like i am. theres still so much to do but im getting better all the time.
its hard, and it hurts, and its so fucking scary to try to heal the parts of you deep inside that other people beat into submission, but you can do it. just one little step at a time.
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on QUIT YAPPIN‼️‼️ in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 Sep 2026
but yapping is how i bond with people 🥺
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on fit check rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 Sep 2026
your brother is gonna love it on you almost as much as he loves it off you :3
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on egg😯irl in c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 Sep 2026
being a lesbian is cool. so much better than being a straight guy.
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on they are getting along at least~ in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 Sep 2026
¿porque no los dos?
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on consent rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 Sep 2026
vaccines are great and awesome and i wish there were more and i could get them. no one is being forced against their will to get vaccinated. people who refuse for nonmedical reasons are a danger to others, directly, not in some hypothetical society might be better off way. just like someone else who brought up smoking which also harms others directly. they should be barred from certain places for not getting them yeah. that doesnt violate their bodily autonomy. they can choose not to they just wont be able to do certain things or go certain places because they are a danger to others. you can choose to smoke you just wont be allowed to do it where you will hurt people.
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on consent rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 Sep 2026
this is such a false equivalence argument its painful. cigarette smoke materially harms others directly. subjecting someone to your cigarette smoke violates their bodily autonomy unless they consent to breathe your second hand smoke and take on the associated harms. someone committing suicide doesnt harm anyone directly. youre saying them dying is bad for the people in their life because they support them so they should be pressured to stay alive and be actively prevented from dying so they can continue to provide benefit to others.
thats literally the argument pro lifers use against abortion. women revoking their material support of their unborn child in most cases leads to its death, so they argue women should be forced to carry it to term, violating their bodily autonomy. youre arguing the same thing for people who want to die. their life benefits others who may die or be worse off without them so they should be compelled to continue existing against their will.
fuck that. anyone who argues that position is on the slippery slope to supporting slavery. you dont get to sacrifice peoples bodily autonomy because it might be good for fucking society. youre fucking wrong and nothing you can say will convince me such a callous position is right. people have the right to die if they choose to, and people like you make exercising that right worse for everyone.
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on consent rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 Sep 2026
thats a pretty naive perspective that ignores the reality of suicide. people are going to do it anyway, whatever you or anyone else thinks. removing options for people in that situation just worsens the harm to people around them and society as a whole, because no one is prepared and they can only do it in an inconvenient place/way. its always a surprise that people have to deal with suddenly, rather than something with established procedures and norms. your position is basically “they shouldnt because its hard messy so we’ll make it really hard and messy to disuade them”. its a circular argument that serves no one.
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on consent rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 Sep 2026
another example of capitalism/society causing harm and people ascribing that harm to the response rather than the system that pushed people to be desperate enough to be killed for money. but you know that already fucking happens. life insurance fraud is a thing. people take out huge life insurance plans then go find a way to die that looks like an accident to support someone else. but sure allowing people to consent to die would be the real problem.
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on consent rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 Sep 2026
i think the message there is society and capitalism are fucking evil. they put those people in those terrible situations and then took advantage of their desperation. obviously the answer is no, they were coerced by a callous system that took everything from them right up to the end.
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on consent rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 Sep 2026
what so we should force them into wage slavery because we think we know whats best for them? yeah people should be allowed to end their life if they want regardless of what others think about it. no matter what you or anyone thinks thats always an option. you act like society has any say in the matter but its functionally impossible to stop someone from killing themself without constant monitoring and physical restraint, and even then a motivated person will find a way. better to give people an acceptable and dignified way/place to end things if they choose.
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on consent rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 Sep 2026
all of the negatives youre talking about are because society prevents people from ending their lives or taking drugs or dueling each other in convenient and responsible places/ways. if we gave people the right to end their lives gracefully, in proximity to services to deal with their body after the fact, train jumpers wouldnt be a thing. youre just seeing the harm i was talking about and ascribing it to the act itself.
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on consent rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 Sep 2026
in my mind this falls under bodily autonomy. people have the right to consent to anything being done to their body or not, but also that consent can be given or rescinded at any time. its unethical to legislate away our ability to consent to be shot or stabbed or bludgeoned or killed or whatever, and the person carrying that out shouldnt be punished at all for participating in consensual acts.
i think society in general just gets the ick from the idea of people consenting to things being done to their body that they personally dont understand or would never want and tries to stop it to satisfy their own feelings. we see this applied to all kinds of things like abortion, body modification, drug use, suicide, gender transition, sex acts, sexual partners, etc. its pretty patronizing and only causes additional harm to people seeking those things out without really doing anything to meaningfully stop them.
hopefully at some point in the future human culture will be able to internalize bodily autonomy as an inherent personal right. we’re on the road but we’ve been hitting a few bumps lately…
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on aposematism rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 4 Sep 2026
baby emos and goths dont exhibit this adaptation, due to the relative lack of physical danger, instead more closely emulating their adult counterparts to better blend in within the complex interpersonal dynamics of the group.
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on dune be like in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 Sep 2026
and a big worm :3
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on dune be like in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 Sep 2026
muad-dib transitioned so their child could transform
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on pink in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 3 Sep 2026
hmmm bottom left is interesting. i wonder if that would work well with broad shoulders.
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on Bedruling in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 Sep 2026
jokes on you i never make my bed. less wasted time in the morning and faster to get in bed at night. the covers are getting all fucked up anyway.
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on High-Speed Rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 Sep 2026
some bottoms prefer low speed rail 🙃
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on one of the best dynamics <3 in c/yurimemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 Sep 2026
believe it or not, somehow both the same girl
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on Shower me with adoration in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 Sep 2026
can the cult share a home and allow cats? id join a cult of terminally online queer people that would let me move in and bring my cats.
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on in retrospect, the signs were there the whole time in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 30 Aug 2026
a trans inside out would be such an interesting idea. all the emotions are the opposite agab and theres a new one no one knows the name of and it just cannot handle this situation. it keeps influencing seemingly random memories but no one knows what to do about it. now that i think about it that might be a really hard movie to watch…
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on trans people are rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 30 Aug 2026
we’re so hot. trans girls can achieve body shapes that are impossible for cis women in a really nice way. its one thing that makes me happy to be trans instead of cis.
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on this is a dynamic i genuinely hadn't considered in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 29 Aug 2026
new meaning for egirl :3
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on Lesbian rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 29 Aug 2026
theres also nothing wrong with sharing a bed and cuddling with your flatmate every once in a day
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on I have an auditory processing rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 29 Aug 2026
probly lol. its really common in autistic people. i have this and also auditory sensitivity. its basically impossible for me to tune things out and loud noises are painful, especially high pitched stuff. i used to get really bad road rage and i realized recently a lot of it was just sensory overwhelm from the car noise, so now i drive with ear plugs in and its much better.
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on I have an auditory processing rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 29 Aug 2026
i think so yeah. like my brain cares more about making me aware of all the meaningless noise in the room than figuring out what someone is saying -.- there are definitely people i have a harder time understanding. there have been times someone has repeated something to me like 10 times and its just like… you need to use different words i have no fucking idea what youre trying to say to me lol.
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on Ribbit rulebbit in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 29 Aug 2026
oh no who did their wife get divorced from?
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on I have an auditory processing rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 29 Aug 2026
trying to socialize somewhere loud and being lucky to comprehend half the words people say 💀
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on Girls...**EAT!** in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 28 Aug 2026
yeah sounds like its not great. i dont think i would do it myself but im not really dysphoric about my shoulders. might be worth it for somebody though 🤷♀️
being 30 isnt so bad. i felt like my life was over too, but its turning out to be the best decade of my life so far.