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Ouroboros can have a little ouroboros, as a treat
Monilla on sanottavaa, kaikilla on vaiettavaa; puhutaan siis, ja ollaan yhtä hiljaa.
member since 14 Jun 2026 19:04
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- on Queer discourse rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 17 Sep 2026
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on Love is love in c/lemmybewholesome@lemmy.world · 6 Sep 2026
Believing in some deity is also ok, people can have their thoughts, as long as it does not harm others. A lot of people believing in some form of god, get solace out of it, so if it is, what they need to get by in this shitty world, good for them. Not all delusions are harmful.
What is not ok, is taking part in and enabling evil religious systems, and using those beliefs as an excuse for hatred, discrimination, oppression and even war. The religious folks following the actual teachings of their religions is usually fine, as those tend to be pretty good (help others, love everyone and do not hate, etc.). Also a drastic contrast to the other, fundamentalist sides doing the opposite, cherrypicking what suits them out of the beliefs, and pretending their religion justifies their evil actions.
(And I am an atheist myself, if that matters, for the context.)
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on can't rue? DAY 51 [OC, brainmade] in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 31 Aug 2026
Oh, it is a classic otaku thing. Having anime girl (etc.) covers for the pillows, so you can pretend you are hugging them. There is always someone, who does not know bodypillows from any other context, so that was a sort of disclaimer, in case of that.
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on can't rue? DAY 51 [OC, brainmade] in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 31 Aug 2026
Bodypillows are a thing, I can recommend. You can get them even from Ikea, it is not just weaboo stuff.
I think this is it. At one point, when I was hanging around queer spaces on the internets, it was inclusive and preferred to use “pan” instead of “bi”, but then few years later it flipped around. Same with writing LGBTQA*, which was then preferred as inclusive, but few years later apparently the asterisk made it non-inclusive instead.
Personally, I treat the labels more like a fashion thing now, since they come and go, and the “polite” ones change. So if I want to hang around queer spaces, I will just read up what is okay at the moment. Usually I do not anymore, though, since I absorbed into my spine, from the earlier internet days, that asexuals are not welcome (“A is for Ally”). I know that changed later as well, but at that point I had grown too tired, to talk about queer stuff.