i kinda hate the idea that simply not being attracted to someone is “judging their appearance”, i don’t understand where society got that idea.
Like what are you supposed to do, gaslight yourself into finding them attractive? no matter how i turn it, it just feels incredibly abusive towards the person who isn’t attracted.
i kinda hate the idea that simply not being attracted to someone is “judging their appearance”, i don’t understand where society got that idea.
Like what are you supposed to do, gaslight yourself into finding them attractive? no matter how i turn it, it just feels incredibly abusive towards the person who isn’t attracted.