member since 12 Jun 2023 16:55
There’s a lot of super specific transfemme memes about tech jobs and monster energy drinks and striped socks etc. What’re the transmasc and enby memes?
yeah when I do decide to stop wearing cheap shit I’m probably gonna do sulfur patinated silver. Unsettlingly pale with dark hair and other accents is kind of my signature look but it’s hard to create a contrast with a bright metal. And I want something that’s going to be relatively easy to reapply at home but that’s a little more durable than simple enamel. I can already tell which ones were coated properly vs which ones were just enameled, which is wild amount of variability in quality considering they were all like $2-3.
I’m just not sure where I’m going to get this amount of variety / character out of actual proper jewelry metals without going 100% custom and that’s just not within my means currently. I also have to get mostly split / resizable styles since my fingers are exeptionally skinny, all those split styles you see on the forefingers are brought down to like a 4 from a 6-8, and some of the other styles are split on the underside (which is less ideal since they pinch when I grasp things and I like the split to look intentional where possible)
I also have removable nail cover rings but one of the pinkies popped off the ring and I’m waiting for a friend to make me some custom acrylics anyway. would be super cool to have some solid metal ones someday but again, not feasible right now.
Keeps people from stealing yo girl.
buboosenchan is one of my absolute favorite YouTube creators.
It’s not too bad when you’ve got a license that’s in demand but without a license # to put in the box on the app it’s pretty rough. Was pretty rough for the unlicensed roles in my field but is decently easy with. This is reminding me to call back that recruiter in the morning that hubs convinced me to stay in-state because they gave me a follow-up call like a month later to ask if I’m still considering them and idw be too rude in case I do decide to move the year after next.
I’m writing WTC/FR F/NB tentacle porn.
Yeah CICO is technically true but as a thin person myself people really do not adequately account for normal stress response. My body’s natural response to stress is anorexia (the symptom, not nervosa / the disorder). I don’t have better self control I just lose my appetite when I’m upset vs some people get hungrier. It’s not even necessarily a healthy response, if I got cancer or another serious illness I would really struggle to take in enough calories to fight it off properly. In fact old people with a lil chub survive serious hospitalization a lot more readily.
I’ve been thinking about sleeping in running weights.
Putting KDE over mint broke my Bluetooth please advise.
eta: if transfemmes are tech nerds what are transmascs?
I keep telling people of all cisness / transness that there are a LOT of cis women that don’t pass. In healthcare you see a LOT of people in various states of dress and grooming and sometimes I remind my coworkers that they wouldn’t look a whole lotta femme without their wig and makeup either!
if my husband doesn’t start posting pics of me in paranormal today we’re getting divorced.
Try Wikipedia for Eriksson’s psychosocial stages. That’s the thing they were teaching ~10y ago and idt it’s gone out of fashion as the overall framework yet.
Also it’s sort of common (experiential) knowledge in mental healthcare that addiction just hits the pause button on whatever developmental stage you’re in then sobriety unpauses it and you have to start dealing with whatever psychological stage you were avoiding at the time. So if you start using at 14 then get sober 15 years later you’re gonna be sorting out identity vs role confusion at 30 fucking years old. And the stages are really spaced out as you get older so if you turn into an alcoholic in your late 30s and spend 15 years before getting sober it’s not going to be such a noticeable gap since you were mostly finished with intimacy vs isolation anyway and you’re only missing like half of generativity vs stagnation.
TLDR; it doesn’t mess with your development only before 25 it’s just much more noticeable when a 30y/o still acts like a teenager than when a 50y/o still acts like a 35y/o.
Hubs loves Dark Place. It’s pretty funny but I’m not quite as in love with it as him.
More importantly you can wear them in the shower and be less likely to catch tinea or worse. They also don’t have a thong that can be taken out and wrapped around shit, and the bottom is soft enough that it doesn’t do more than sting a little if you smack somebody with it, and doesn’t add much extra to a kick.