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• echoing the other comment about meditation (and 4-7-8 breathing to calm yourself down); but in the interim, if you really must keep scrolling, you can put something like twilight on your phone and have it red-tint and darken your screen, which also helps a lot

  on wow just like me rule in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1d ago

• i’d rather you pirate her stuff than buy it, but i would really prefer you shut the fuck up about consuming it, regardless. both to stop other people from engaging with it, and because i do not wanna fucking hear about it, as a trans person

  (harsh tone not directed at you, OP, it’s in agreement, if anything)

  on let go rule in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 7 Sep 2026

• sigh… need to get my white fr

  on too much rule? DAY 55 [OC, brainmade] in c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 6 Sep 2026

• very insistent on helping clean up / stack chairs and whatnot

  on If you were gonna build suspiciously specific starterpack memes for transmascs and / or enbys what would be in them? in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 31 Aug 2026

• service top reporting in

  it’s similar, but it’s not the same

  on which one are you? (switch or sub) in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 28 Aug 2026

• he just like me fr

  on TRANSGENDER FISH in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 27 Aug 2026

• meeeee 🙈🙈🙈

  can y’all stop posting such relatable memes? i’m supposed to be a big tough manly man /s

  on Illusion of choice in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 24 Aug 2026

• meeee

  on real smelly hours in c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 21 Aug 2026

• in retrospect, requiring it specifically be behind a CW feels a little harsh. it could just be a tag like (transfem) or w/e

  imperfect solution i guess

  on [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem] Boymoder or not, you are all cute and valid in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 10 Aug 2026

• the trans (otherwise non-gendered) spaces i’ve tended to occupy have been trans fem dominated… which is cool but eventually can feel kind of exclusionary to like… share a space? because i’m trans masc and not necessarily looking to get the good girls posts or the girl euphoria posts etc

  so it’s not really like a… oh being a trans fem is triggering… it’s just an acknowledgement that not everyone in the space is. but i get feeling some friction about it. maybe it helps to imagine the equivalent trans masc post? “girlmoder or not, you’re all handsome and valid”… and you can decide for yourself if you feel like the “cw: assumes viewer is trans masc” is warranted

  but that’s what i understand the origin of the rule to be, and for what it’s worth, it does make it a lot more pleasant to be around for me

  on [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem] Boymoder or not, you are all cute and valid in c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 9 Aug 2026